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Dear Polly. I was married for ten years to a good person who tried very hard to be Single mom seeks friends maybe more good husband. He was loyal, honest, dependable, and funny. I loved him in large part because I felt like he was the kind of guy I Single mom seeks friends maybe more marry. And I bent over backward to be the good wife.

I made elaborate dinners and sewed curtains and kept track of appointments. And I followed his career at the expense of my own in a tough cross-country move. Two years ago, I had a baby on my own. Now I feel that my love Seeking mature woman seeking sex to Redfox Kentucky my son grounds me and gives a center to my life.

And the longing for a companion, someone to talk Horny women in Antwerp and share jokes with and be in my corner and get me, has not gone away. Plus, I miss sex and physical affection a lot. About a year ago, I decided I was ready to start dating again.

Before, it was all lengthy profiles and revealing charming details about yourself, followed by a polite exchange of get-to-know-you-banter emails and arrangements ffiends meet for fdiends.

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Ghosting after a few or a lot of text messages and never meeting people in person is common. Giving someone your phone number more often leads to silence than it does to a date. And the guys I have managed to go out with almost never feel worth the babysitting sesks.

The whole experience has been pretty awful. It makes me feel bitter and frustrated, like I am spending a lot of energy chasing something that is simply unattainable for me. There seems to be no other way to meet people except through online dating. I feel totally stuck.

I Single mom seeks friends maybe more caught between thinking nom, on the one hand, the grief, although hard, would at least end the misery and hopefully take me to a place where I can just be satisfied with the rest of my life which Single mom seeks friends maybe more pretty greatand still feeling, on the other hand, that love is a basic human need, so cutting myself off from what still seems like the likeliest path to getting there will only end up stunting my life in the long run.

So what do I do? Do I forge ahead with online dating mon hope that it really is a numbers game and that someday mine will actually come up? Or do I just let it go Single mom seeks friends maybe more accept that an adult love relationship is just not in the cards for me? Single Mom on the Verge. Dear SMOV.

There are people who say that once they gave up on love, they became a lot happier. That makes a lot of sense to me and dovetails with my happiest single days.

There is self-hatred in that picture. Am I too weak for that? So the first step is to absolve yourself of any stigma. You grew up, found someone, realized he was wrong for you, broke up, pursued a career, made friends, had a baby. Now you have ,ore 2-year-old.

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You feel proud of yourself for making a good decision and having a kid on your own, right? So, bask in that for a while.

You saw your son through to age 2. You knew what you wanted and you went for it. Then build on that good feeling. What else do you really want, besides love? Do you want to make some new friends, maybe some single moms who would love to have a partner to do things with occasionally?

Do you want to pursue new interests? In your marriage, you gave up everything and became someone who served the marriage alone. Singe we crave this in spite of ourselves. So you need to clarify how it would look to have love in your life.

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I abandoned my own habits and hobbies without a second thought. Love is not a whirlwind, not for a year-old mother with a full, happy life.

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Love is not an escape. For now, I would give up on online dating.

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The Tinder-ization of the world will subside, or at least stay in its own high-speed fuckboat lane. In the meantime, ask yourself how you want to spend Single mom seeks friends maybe more time, what you want to become, how you want to feel. Exercising vigorously every day is mandatory for a single something mother who needs to muster a good attitude every morning.

Commit to it.

Commit to yourself and your life. Make it look and feel beautiful. There are lots of people out there, actually. Take those hours that you spend dating, and turn them into hours where you leave the house feeling independent and fully seekw.

Take some new classes. Swim in new ponds. Engage with the world passionately and follow your own path.

Do things that make you feel proud of who you are. I think women have a tough time thinking ahead like this. Maybe everyone does.

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There will be challenges. There will be setbacks. But if you honor yourself, there will always be love out there for you. Someone will come along. Maybe in five years.

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Maybe in five minutes. The world is filled with someones. You are only halfway through your story.

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