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Thanks for visiting! I do not want a repeat of that last experience we had; the sex was fun, but the aftermath was not. I am also a little worried about STDs, even with protection.
Do you have any advice on how I might reconcile some of these worries with my strong desire to have some fun with a few more people? Or do any DW readers have some insight into how best to go about this sort of thing? Luckily, you would at least have your boyfriend around to kick them out if necessary.
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And as for the awkward dinner party thing— I mean, I guess? At least in my experience! FossilChick August 15,9: In my opinion, the best option is an acquaintance — someone you both know but that Seeking open minded woman for conversation of you are particularly close to where an important friendship could be damaged, like last time.
It takes a very confident person to be the third when the other two are an established couple. So you need to vet that person, either through knowing them or by chatting online in the case of a stranger. Also, re: Lynn August 15, Amber August 15, The good news is that there is Seeking open minded woman for conversation STD database you can access to help you with your decision.
Go to Craigslist, click Mature swinger in Adamsville city your city, then click on Casual Encounters. It seems to me like a stranger is the best way to go. You just have to take it slow. Meet them in a public place so you can vet them and get a sense for their personality.
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I would imagine meeting someone in more of a low key setting could help put your mind at ease. My husband and I are in a non-monogamous relationship and enjoy things like what you are looking for and generally Sewking for women for this type of situation.
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You guys need to try conversatipn somewhere specifically for swinger, like yourselves. Hedonism resorts is one such place. And yes, you need to steer clear of bringing in people you know for your third party; that is just waaaay too complicated.
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Another technique people use when picking up a third party is this: Strike up a conversation and then after you have established a bit of relationship with them, ask them if they would oepn to accompany you and your boyfriend to a strip club. If they bite, take em to the strip club.
After the strip club, you ask them if they want to come home with you. Just a word of caution: