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Apart from this situation, he has been good and caring otherwise. He says he is sorry and wants a chance to start over, and I want us to start over too.
How does someone get the trust back after being lied to over and over and over again? I mean, I felt stupid and guilty for suspecting qm and it turns out I was right all along. How could he do that to someone he says he cares about unless he is actually lying about caring about me?
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How could he keep doing that knowing how it affected every part of our life and was getting in the way of our supposed happy family? How can I ever look back on any good memories and be frusky but sad? And how can I ever remember all the lies and be OK with them?
It will be a safe place for you and your husband to healthfully explore what may have led and contributed to his emotional affairs. And yes, I do believe that he was emotionally straying from you, at the very least. By all accounts, you define his sexting as cheating on you which I xm is completely accurate, personally.
Your job is to figure out what you can accept, and move on from. Some people can forgive and forget. So ask yourself if you think you can. Can you not snoop through his phone?Sex Partner I Nacogdoches
Will you eventually stop worrying about his straying? And, for his part, does he make a concerted effort to change?
Does he seem remorseful? Is he making strides to really and truly become a more evolved person in your marriage? These are questions you can answer through time, observation and in therapy. Your answers to them will determine whether or not you two can make this work.
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I dont ever snoop on my hobbies phone but a couple of things had me worried. Well, after about 8 months I found out he was sending and receiving masturbating videos from a woman in California. He hid this from me for a long time until I hit the nail on the head.
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He refused it at first. Finally I bh ot him to answer shake his head yes to the video question. He was apologetic yet made tons of excuses.
I still do not look at his phone nor do Iask him to show me for fear of feeling upset. What do I do? I feel awful about myself now and definitely dont want to ak kiss him.
Advice please. Kate June 15,5: What he did is a pretty major betrayal, compounded by the fact that he refuses, even now, couplrs be honest with you, and has no interest in working through this in therapy and rebuilding trust.
Paulette July 31, Girl I went through this same stuff. Leah April 4,9: It might be difficult, but you really need to get his side of the story. What really stuck out for me is that there was a very clear line that he was not crossing with these women. He never heard their voices, only Any women or couples feeling frisky this am, and none of them were local Housewives want casual sex Floodwood Minnesota there was no chance of meeting them in person.
People define cheating differently, and O would say that generally women are more strict with their definitions than men are. Was this behavior likely to escalate over time?
Would he have stepped up to phone sex, Any women or couples feeling frisky this am chatting and eventually meeting up with women in real life? Or was this behavior that he wrongly assumed was basically harmless because it was never going to go further than the written word?
It would take time for you to really trust him again, but it is possible to move on from this.
And who knows? Maybe you can get a much more honest relationship out of it when all is said and done.
I agree that this Any women or couples feeling frisky this am a chance to work on their relationship, but the thing is, I think he thix how much it would hurt her. That would really bother me more than the actually sexting, and I think that is what is hurting the LW so much.
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CollegeCat April 4, Could you tell me more about the nature of your relationship? If you are involved with other people in a romantic way that makes you hide it from your wife, its pretty much cheating. The only thing you are New Missoula bbw sex out is the different between emotional cheating and frizky Any women or couples feeling frisky this am and even in this case its not clear where he lies on that spectrum.
If phone sex is considered physical cheating, and cyber sex is physical cheating then sexting is physical cheating. I really have to disagree here. I think cheating emotional and physical is on a continuum and each person defines it differently. Is that cheating?
I call bullshit on all of it. Cheating comes in all forms including emotional cheating is a huge one example: Physical cheating is a no-brainer Ajy the cheating spectrum of no-nos for most people unless open relationships are already agreed uponduh.
Personally I say, incorrect.
Firstly all of these things just creates lower self confidence, cheaper sense of the relationship, paranoia, agitation inadvertently or not, ie…moodyness as my SO would say…hmmm I wonder why? Took much to ask? Why go looking for trouble if already in a relationship in the first place?Woonsocket South Dakota Teen Fucking Hardcore
Been there done that in the past, lessons learned, moved on. So yes, make those mistakes early on, live and learn then move onto better things from those lessons.
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A year ago I found out he had a secret social media account where he would flirt with multiple girls for about 8 months, some from his neigbourhood. Any women or couples feeling frisky this am denied ever having done anything more than just flirt.
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I agree about cheating definitions. He might of seen this as looking at porn versus a relationship. The lines are blurred now.